When you make eye contact, it connects with the audience because:()A.When you make eye c
A.When you make eye contact, you make a friend
B.They become engaged
C.It shows you are real
D.They don't want you to stare at them
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A.When you make eye contact, you make a friend
B.They become engaged
C.It shows you are real
D.They don't want you to stare at them
第1题
What should you do before the interview?
A.Smile and make eye contact as you shake hands.
B.It is not appropriate for you to end the interview.
C.Always say "Thank you" when the interview is over.
D.Review the job description or the "Help Wanted" description.
第2题
Eye contact, though not a sure sign of dishonesty, is a clear way to show interest in another person. When a person looks at you and continues to do so, you know his attention is placed on you. When he turns his head away, his mind is probably elsewhere. But there are exceptions. A shy person may have trouble making and keeping eye contact, no matter how interested he is in the other person. And certain nationalities, such as the British and Germans, are much less oriented to eye-to-eye contact than, say, the French and the Arabs.
Eye contact should be natural, not forced or overdone.
Have short periods of eye contact while you watch other parts of the person's face — especially the mouth. When the person smiles, be sure to smile back. But always make an effort to return your gaze to the person's eyes as she speaks. It is common to look up, down, and all around when speaking to others, and not have eye contact at all times.
Too much eye contact, especially if it is forced, can work against you. If you stare at a person, or leer in a suspicious way, the other person may feel uncomfortable and even suspicious about your intent. A fixed stare can seem like aggressive behavior. if it is a challenge as to who will look away first.
(1)Many people believe that eye contact is a sign of ___________.
A、honesty
B、dishonesty
C、attention
D、A and C
(2)According to the passage, which of the following statements is NOT true?
A、Eye contact is a way to show interest in another person.
B、When a person looks at you, his attention is placed on you.
C、When a person fails to make eye contact, he is definitely not interested in you.
D、It is common to look up, down, and all around when speaking to others.
(3)While we watch other person's face, we should have short periods of eye contact with, especially, other people's _____________.
A、eyes
B、nose
C、mouth
D、ears
(4)Which of the following statements is TRUE according to the passage?
A、Eye contact is not a good test of honesty.
B、Some people may have trouble making and keeping eye contact, no matter how interested he is in the other person.
C、If someone can look at you directly in the eye, he or she is playing honestly.
D、A number of experts have found out that no one can make false eye contact.
(5)This passage mainly discusses ________________.
A、how to test one is honest or not by the way of eye contact
B、how to make eye contact
C、how to avoid too much eye contact
D、the function of correct eye contact
第3题
The appropriate use of eye contact 【B3】______ from one culture to another. In some cultures, women are 【B4】______ to lower their eyes in most communication 【B5】______ ; in others, younger people must keep their eyes lowered when addressing older people. 【B6】______ , in the United States, 【B7】______ you are addressing an individual, a small group of people, or a larger audience, you are expected to look at them. You do not have to stare 【B8】______ and continuously; 【B9】______ , it is appropriate when speaking to one person to 【B10】______ occasionally. In a small group you should look around at the different members of the group. 【B11】______ when addressing a larger audience, you should try to make eye contact with different people around the room. It is important to look at the 【B12】______ Audience, not just the people in the center of the room, 【B13】______ you will probably have to turn your head and/or your body in order to make proper eye contact with people 【B14】______ at the sides of the room. If you look at the floor or the ceiling, you will give the impression that you are not interested in your audience. A speaker establishes friendly relationship with the audience mainly 【B15】______ eye contact, and good relationship is essential to the success of any speech.
【B1】______
A.why
B.whom
C.how
D.where
第4题
Why do we talk so much about the weather? When we meet new people, we don‘t begin by telling them our life story. We start with small talk, a polite conversation about something like traffic or weather.
Research suggests that small talk can build new friendships. When we begin conversations with new people, we want to feel comfortable, and so do they. We use small talk to find common interests. Once we have a common interest, a friendship can begin.
Small talk even helps people get hired. In order to impress at a job interview, you need to bond with the interviewer right away. Proper small talk can make that first impression get you the job.
So, how can you make small talk lead to a new friendship or job? First off, find common ground. Select something around you that you share with the other person.
Next, keep the conversation going. Compliment (赞美) the other person to make him or her feel comfortable, and ask questions to show interest.
Third, keep eye contact (接触). When you look people in the eye, they feel you appreciate what they are saying. It makes you appear honest and builds trust.
Naturally, shy people might not have enough confidence to start up conversations with strangers. Talking to someone you don‘t know is not the easiest thing to do! Some experts say with more practice, small talk does get easier.
Some people avoid small talk because they dislike discussing things like traffic or weather. For them, they are just too small. However, when you think about it, small talk is anything but small. In fact, it is actually a very big deal!
Title Small Talk: A Big (76)____
Introduction
We are likely to make small talk when we (77)____ meet people.
(78)____
? Small talk can help people form. (79)____ friendships.
? Small talk can also help people Ret a (80)____.
Advice
? Find some topics (81)____ with the other person.
? Keep the talk going by making compliments and (82)____ questions. ? Keep eye contact in conversation to build (83)____.
? (84)____ more in order to make small talk easier.
Conclusion
Small talk really (85)____ a lot to us.
第5题
A.smile
B.make eye contact
C.sit or stand up straight
第6题
Part B
Directions:
Read the following text and answer the questions by choosing the most suitable
subheading from the list A-G for each of the numbered paragraphs(41-45).There
are two extra subheadings which you do not need to use. Mark your answers on
the ANSWER SHEET.
A. Be present
B. Just say it
C. Ask for an opinion
D. Find the"me too"s
E. Name,places,things
F. skip the small talk
G. Pay a unique compliment
Five ways to make conversation with anyone
Conversations are links,which means when you have a conversation with a new person a link gets
formed and every conversation you have after that moment will strengthen the link.
You meet new people every day:the grocery worker,the cab driver,new people at work or the
security guard at the door.Simply starting a conversation with them will form. a link.
Here are five simple ways that you can make the fit move and start a conversation with strangers.
41.
Suppose you are in a room with someone you don’t know and something within you says “I want
to talk with this person”-this is something that mostly happens with all of us.You wanted to say
something-the first word-but it just won’t come out,it feels like it is stuck somewhere.l know the
feeling and here is my advice:just get it out.
Just think:what is the worst that could happen?They won’t talk with you?Well,they are not
talking withing with you now!
Itruly believe that once you get that first word out everything will just flow.
Itruly believe that once you get that first word out everything else will just flow.So keep it
simple"hi","hey"or"hello"-do the best you can to gather all of the enthusiasm and energy you
can,put on a big smile and sey"hi".
42.
It’s a problem all of us face; you have limited time with the person that you want to talk with and
you want to make this talk memorable.
Honestly,if we got stuck in the rut of “h”,”hello”,” how are your”and “what’s going on?”,you will
fail to give the initial jolt to the conversation that can make it so memorable.
So don’t be afraid to ask more personal questions.Twst me,you’ll be surprised to see how much
people are willing to share if you just ask.
43.
When you meet a person for the first time,make an effort to find the things which you and that
person have in common so that you can build the conversation from that point.When you start
conversation from there and then move outwards,you’ll find all of a sudden that the conversation
becomes a lot easier.
44.
Imagine you are pouring your heart out to someone and they are just busy on their phone,and if
you ask for their attention you get the response “I can multitask”.
So when someone tries to communicate with you,just be in that communication
wholeheartedly.Make eye contact.Trust me,eye contact is where all the magic happens.When you
make eye contact,you can feel the conversation.
45.
You all came into a conversation where you first met the person,but after some time you may have
met again and have forgotten their name.Isn’t that awkward! So,remember the little details of the
people you met or you talked with; perhaps the places they have been to.the places they want to
go,the things they like.the things they hate-whatever you talk about.
Vhen you remember such things you can automatically become investor in their well being.So
they feel a responsibility to you to keep that relationship going.
That’s it.Five amazing ways that you can make conversation with almost anyone.Every person is a
really good book to read ,or to have a conversation with!
第8题
【C1】
A.public
B.private
C.selfish
D.lucky
第9题
A.contract
B.touch
C.contact
第10题
If you thought handshakes were just a gesture of greeting, then think again! A handshake is not only a way of greeting; it can also show your personality. Since we all want to set a good first impression, it is important to know the right shaking hands manners.
Stand up and maintain eye contact while shaking hands. If you are seated when someone comes for a handshake, stand up and shake his or her' hand. It is impolite to be still seated. Keep right distance between the two of you; not too close, but enough distance to shake your hands well. Keeping eye contact makes the other person feel welcome and comfortable.
Keep a handshake brief and firm. You let go of each other's hand after 2-3 seconds. Make sure your handshake ends before your conversation does. One's handshake should show a feeling of strength and warmth. The hand should be firm and not lifeless like seaweed. Then, how firm should a handshake be'? Just grasp the person's hand completely and do not press it too hard.
21. Which of the following statements about the significance of handshakes is not true?
A. Handshakes are just a gesture of greeting.
B. Handshakes are more than a way of greeting
C. Handshakes can show our personality.
22. If you are seated when someone comes for a handshake, you should().
A. stand up and shake his or her hand
B. keep seated and shake his or her hand
C. bow and say hello to him or her
23. Keeping eye contact while shaking hands makes, the other person feel.
A. nervous
B. comfortable
C. afraid
24. How long does a handshake usually last?
A. As long as the conversation lasts.
B. 5 minutes.
C. 23 seconds.
25. Which of the following words can best describe a proper handshake?
A. brief and strong
B. brief and firm
C. brief and soft
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